Wishing ~ it doesn't have to be a hit or miss proposition

If you were like me in my youth, you probably made a lot of wishes. Some of the came true but more than likely most did not. So when I became an adult, I decided to see if there might just be a more reliable process to my wishes. I have been experimenting with a variety of spiritual concepts and "secrets" that may be of use.

I recently had a client who had fallen on some rather tough "economic" times. He needed to attract $15,000 in monthly income to keep his business intact.

He did not have the $15,000 a month. But he wanted it. "Absolutely, I want to save my business more than anything."

The "flaws" in his wishing process are affirming that he does not have the cash flow and reinforcing both a mind-set and a vibration that creates an energy barrier to ever getting it. By saying he "wants" the money, he is reinforcing the condition of want.

In this moment, he does not have the $15,000, but does hope to get it sometime in the future.

He says, "Sometime soon, I need it straight away."

He was making it clear in his thinking, he was believing and experiencing the loss of his business, and was in tremendous need. Both are guaranteed wish-breakers, at least when it comes to manifesting money or wealth.

Now, one of my favorite words from childhood was "Hallelujah." My Mother and Auntie would say this word often when they received something unexpected or in relation to someone they knew was in need. My church leaders used this word every Sunday in their sermons. I came to love the word. I would "hallelujah" everything from my dolls to my dog.

So I began thinking again on this magical word. It is really quite simple, a single word to make all your wishes come true. It is layered in happiness .. a feel good word tied back to generations of this world. It is a rock solid word. The kind that just wakes up the Universe, the kind of word that makes wishes come true.

But before we can use this word, we must understand how we are creating our wishes and why we want our visualizations to come true. We must clarify our desires so that they are created for the greater good of everyone. The problem most people have with achieving their desires is that they choose things that provide temporary relief from the pain they are experiencing. There is no sense of surrender, of trading for something finer, more peaceful and more universal. In the end, if this benefits only you, you must defend and protect it, building walls against others, and against forces of assistance that surround you and help you to grow.

Before you start to wish or visualize, ask yourself these questions:

1) How will other people benefit?
2) What would make me happy?
3) Why do I believe this will make me happy?
4) Why is this important to me now?
5) Who else do I know who has this, or something similar to this?
6) When do I want this to happen
7) Where do I end up as a result?
8) How do I act towards others when I have this?
9) Whom do I accept, love or forgive as a result of having this?
10) How will having this define me?

The answers to are key pieces to the manifestation process. They reduce or eliminate our fear of change as we can see what is likely to happen to us and those around us. They strengthen our belief that what we do desire is possible, and beliefs always over-ride thought when it comes to receiving or repelling what we want. And, they help us see that is is impossible to create anything in a vacuum. Whatever we want must be good for us, and those around us.

Once we are perfectly clear, we can create what we want either through wishing, visualization, or both. Wishing really is short term visualization, so I start with wishing, and then expand it into a full mental scene where I am experiencing what I want with all my senses ~ sight, hearing, smell, touch, taste, and intuition. Visualization allows us to have something right away. No waiting and no wanting. It allows us to get comfortable with having what we want. We can experience in the pleasure, love, and peace of something that is good and right. If your mind tends to drift, it is helpful to create a "story-book," a journal, CD, or tape with your dream coming true in the present. I will share this personal tool in another blog.

Once this is done, it is "Hallelujah!" time. Simply look for the evidence all around you on an physical plane. Just as visualization is a "here and now" for the mind and spirit, "Hallelujah!" is the "here and now" on the physical plane. For my client who wants the $15,000 for his business, I suggested he look around for people who already have and are spending that kind of money building or maintaining their businesses. Instead of feeling jealous or bitter, he should say out loud, "Hallelujah!, there is another one." Cheer for an other's success. "Lots of people have this, so why not me?" Another benefit of this process is that the man is reading, watching, and learning about how those with abundant money run their business, spend their money, moving their product, or saving their incomes. Note: It is most powerful to say the word "hallelujah!" out loud, from the horses mouth so to speak.

If you have difficulty blessing others with praise, start small with the simpler things around you: the flowers in bloom, the visible stars in the sky, the snowflakes during a storm, the smell of fresh baking bread from the bakery around the corner. Over time, you will come to know that abundance exists everywhere, everyday and all the time. By appreciating and being thankful for unlimited natural wealth, you can relax and enjoy the idea that there is no lacking of anything in the universe.

Be thankful for every job that comes your way, every dollar, every new opportunity. It is possible to go from very little to $15,000 a month, but you must believe this can happen. "Hallelujah! is another piece for your wishing to come true. You will attract into your life, perhaps slowly at first but surely.

Focus your attention on enjoying everything you receive and you will get even more than what you had bargained for. Wish or visualization, it is done right here, right now. Focus on this moment, a wall built up on tomorrow cannot be penetrated today.

Let your heart speak. Listen with your eyes. Your wish is granted.

(c) Coach Brenda ~ 2008

Light your Goals on Fire ~ Tips to Succeed

Here we are coming up on the 7th month of another year. Are you accomplishing what you've set out to do so far this year? Are you setting your goals and making a list of your accomplishments? Do you like your results so far? Wish you had better ones? You can – the time is now to refocus and reframe your 2008 goals so by the end of the year, you can look back and say "I was hot this year."

You do have the power within yourself to succeed. If you decide to achieve your goals you can, and do so with fire burning brightly. Then when someone asks you, "what did/have you accomplished in 2008?" You can resond,"Let me tell you – I was unstoppable!"

We aren't getting any younger. If nothing changes, next year you will be another year older and still stuck in the same rut wondering when you will achieve your dreams. You can change! Here are some thoughts to apply so that you can take control of your life and light your fire!

Decide what you want this year. You must crystallize the goal in order to pursue and then achieve it. You must increase your positive self-talk. If I tell myself, "I am fat and never will get this weight off," what happens? You know the answer. Erase the negative thoughts, the negative tapes inside your head and replace with positive self-statements.

If you catch yourself thinking negatively, stop and replace it with the exact opposite. Write the positive thoughts down, post them with a sticky note, write them in your journal, or with a dry erase marker on your bathroom mirror. Expand these thoughts throughout every inch of your mind and body. Visualize where you want to be and you can get there.

Take action! Once your goal is identified, you must act on it to achieve it. So, you want to lose 20 lbs. Your actions could be to schedule a regular time for exercise, evaluating your eating habits and then replacing with health alternatives, or hanging a visual reinforcement (photograph, tiny bikini) for constant reminder. Don't forget to incorporate the positive action thoughts into your daily routine as well. Believe it and it will be!

Also, choose to surround yourself with a positive supportive person who is aware of your goal and helps you to accomplish it. Whatever you do – act! Just make the action something that will propel you toward your goal.

Here are a couple of exercises …..

1. Decide what you want to accomplish in life. Write down 50, 100 or 200 things you want to do, places you want to visit, etc.

2. Live with integrity. That will keep you from crashing and burning along the road. That's never fun.

3. Give more than you receive. Be a person that others see as a generous, "go-to" guy in time of need.

4. Think and Dream Big. Take risks in life and share those results.

5. Manifest your goals with positive affirmations, visualizations, and journaling daily.

Whether your goal is weight loss, living debt free, dating and relating, returning to university, or chasing after a career goal, you do have the power within you to accomplish these goals.

Ask for support, help from family or friends, or help for an Coach or Advocate you invest in. Take charge today, you will be a year older next year, guaranteed but will you be living the life you dream and accomplishing your goals?

Define, develop your action, and pursue your goals!

Goal Setting ~ Simple Habit for Success



Goal setting is simple and by making this a habit, you can start placing yourself in the top 3% of the population of successful people. Your goal setting can help you reach any of your goals, regardless of whether they are for business, personal, relationships, and so on.

Here are some simple steps to get you started:

1) Define your goals, write them down, and be very specific.

2) Determine what the time line is for reaching your goals.

3) Identify any obstacles that may stand in the way, list them, and state how you plan to overcome them.

4) Make a list of the people and/or organization that will help you reach your goals.


These are simple steps, 97% of the population does not practice active goal setting. Are you still one of them? Make this a habit and start achieving your success!

Best wishes

Yes, You Can Change Your Life

I believe thoughts are an energy which can manifest and create. What you are focused on is what you make happen. If you want to change your reality, the first step is to make that decision ~ it really is a choice. The next step is to watch your thoughts. The moment you catch yourself dwelling on a negative, say "stop," and then examine the thought to see if is has any merit. If not, reverse it quickly to a positive. You are now reprogramming your mind to believe and create what you choose; not what others have told you. These are the first steps to change your physical reality. It really is that easy.

An affirmation is a positive statement of fact that you repeat to yourself over and over again in the present tense, affirming it done. You use present tense because we only have the now moment in time. The future is coming, the past is gone. So, it is now that we create our future. So, in the now moment you would not say "grant me strength" because that is affirming and giving energy to the fact that you do not have it. Instead, in affirmation form you would say
"Thank you, I am stronger, and I can see further."

When you want to begin changing your life, repeat the following affirmations into memory, and hang on to your spiritual seatbelt because you are going to pick up speed in your growth.

~ I have success in all I do, in all I say, in all I am.
~ I have cash flow now, and forever am free from debt.
~ I do the most productive thing possible at every given moment.
~ I meet all the right people, in all the right places, at the right time for the betterment of all.
~ I am loving, I am lovable, I am worthy.
~ Everything I touch turns to gold.
~ Spirit goes before me, making safe my way.

Becoming more of who are are, transcending the mundane, reaching for realms beyond human potential, higher realms of spirit and light, the journey continues.

You have the power to create your new world!
ALL RIGHTS RESERVED ~ 2008

Friendship

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Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born ~ Anais Nin


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Have a wonderful day!
Namaste ~ Brenda

Secret Missing Tip #1


Here is the secret to moving that mountain: You must set a goal that lies on the other side of it. Your fitness goals are your own. I can't presume to tell you where you need to be in terms of your own performance and conditioning. Only you have answers to those questions. But I can guarantee you that, until you search for and then set definite goals-with a definite timetable for achieving them-that mountain will stay right there in the middle of your pathway.


-- Montel Williams, Body Changes: The 21-Day Fitness Program for Changing Your Body and Changing Your Life

Law of Attraction Quote


Think of this random Universe where everything is possible ~ The organizational skills belong to Law of Attraction~ If you will relax and allow Law of Attraction to do the organization, the managing, then you can spend your time doing the things that please you.

~ Abraham

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Have an exceptional day!
Namaste ~ Brenda


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